Saturday, October 30, 2004

STRESS

My Theatre class reli stressed me out lately...
been working hard on choregraphing a musical
together with Jules...n our lecturer seems
to expect perfection n expects our musical
to b like professional broadway kinda thing
n we oni had 2 weeks!n da way she commented
was reli harsh...at that time i felt reli
disappointed... after dat i realised
my dancers were reli affected as well..
one girl even cried...felt bad dat she
felt so sad coz somuch effort has been put in
but such harsh words were spoken...
n den it reminded me how we're always
taught to use kind words n dun speak
with a sarcastic or angry tone...
"a soft answer turns away wrath"
n i feel dat it's so important for ppl to
take notice n more care over how they talk
to others.... guys esp, i dunno sometimes
the way they comment on the girls...
plz la..use a bit of ur brain..its der for a
reason... i mean honestly i've seen girls
who OREDI have RELI low self esteem just
to be pushed to the edge by some dumbass
who hasn't looked in da mirror b4 commenting
" hey, this pants makes u look fat"
or some stupid crap like dat.... plz la
have a bit of a heart..the poor girl oredi
wans to commit suicide coz she thinks she's oevrweight..
SIGH... n sad to say it still happens.. always does..
i dun udnerstand y ppl even frens would do dat to frens
sometimes... Its like i always believe dat..
if u have NOTHINg NICE TO SAY... plz just SHUT UP..
u noe? if nothing's edifying..nothing's worth saying..
den why say it?coming back to my story.. i just feel dat
the world would be a better place if oni every critism would
be in a CONSTRUCTIVE manner instead of a DESTRUCTIVE one..
it would make a lot of difference to someone..
if oni u told him/her " Hey u look great today"
rather den " Erm, isist the time of the month aagain???Gosh..
ur face looks like a pizza gone berserk!!!"
hahaha i'll leave my next post to be cacat things ppl say..

4 Comments:

Blogger weeliem said...

erm...is it that time of month again?? *winkz*

hang in there alrite:P

hum di dum dee da

4:54 PM  
Blogger RacH said...

hey sweetie!! just wanted to say...dont worry... ur gonna be great!! first of all, coz ur gifted in this area...secondly, u have God on ur side. so dont fret! just enjoy urself k? muaks* i believe in u!! leave all the stress at the feet of Jesus... :)

11:12 AM  
Blogger nlye said...

Quoting:
"n i feel dat it's so important for ppl to
take notice n more care over how they talk
to others.... guys esp, i dunno sometimes
the way they comment on the girls...
plz la..use a bit of ur brain.."

I must say i agree on the "GUYS ESP"~ i must also say i'm not always "there", lets learn together kay guys? anybody with me? *ha!*

4:31 AM  
Blogger EstheR said...

hey wee liem & rach..thanks a lot for ur encouragement... i reli needed it.. finally i'ts over...it was a stressful time but it's reli refreshing n wonderful to hearu guys say it was a good production..*SMILEZ*...n who is nlye???:) i assume u're a guy right? n who r u? mind tellin me..heheh sorry i a bit blur!!

10:50 PM  

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